Well, to summarize it, girls need money; especially those in Nairobi and quite a good number are the working class.
I came to realize that as a young man, at 25 you should have gathered yourself enough resources to 'maintain' a girl. Forget about the money you give her for shopping or hairdo, forget about you nice rented house; you need money enough to pay her fees, buy her a car, rent her a house in the middle class areas if not Runda.
Besides all the above you need to gauge yourself and see whether you rise up in competition, if you can't have all the above, make sure you compensate with the loving (I don't know what it means but you can figure out for yourself)
If you can't achieve any of that...go to shaqs find a chic and keep her there!
Monday, April 26, 2010
Friday, April 23, 2010
Workplace, Playground?
I am in the office at 7 in the morning, to beat the jam, i try to check my mail etc before 8 and my boss just gets into the office, calls me to ask me to sort his email....questions arise:
"Why is the wireless network not working? Do we need to buy a new access point?"
No, i answer him, we've had a few problems with power and our UPS is not stable so we need to reset and reboot the switch..
Then we have a meeting till 7.55 talking about new ideas, promises (which never happen soon anyway).
At 8 i am already on phone with quite a number of clients with different issues, and by 10 a.m. i am already tired...of thinking where to start from....I am confused..I am my own boss in this but I got no one to delegate activities...it is a 8 hour day for God's sake!!!
I work 12 hours a day to accomplish this...am I paid for it? NO!
"Why is the wireless network not working? Do we need to buy a new access point?"
No, i answer him, we've had a few problems with power and our UPS is not stable so we need to reset and reboot the switch..
Then we have a meeting till 7.55 talking about new ideas, promises (which never happen soon anyway).
At 8 i am already on phone with quite a number of clients with different issues, and by 10 a.m. i am already tired...of thinking where to start from....I am confused..I am my own boss in this but I got no one to delegate activities...it is a 8 hour day for God's sake!!!
I work 12 hours a day to accomplish this...am I paid for it? NO!
Women! But not my Mother..
Sometimes I tend to think I am so paranoid because I have a lot of issues when I get in contact with women. Though sometimes I like being embraced in their warmth and kindness, I am not fulfilled neither am I happy at the end of it.
The problem I have is the notable differences between me and 'them'; my views of life, love, death, time, work etc. I imagine they look at things from the surface, while we (men) dig deep to explore and get to make decisions. Men have to put up with these women in their lives merely because they have to live a life everyone expects them to...which is totally wrong!
One day, i am looking forward to that time where no one will ask me what was in the news after watching a whole hours of grizzly pictures on 'Citizen news'; where I wouldn't have to accompany one to shopping at the supermarket or if not spend less than 5 minutes at the premises; when I will watch TV without question or interruption; where I will have my 'alone time' too!
The problem I have is the notable differences between me and 'them'; my views of life, love, death, time, work etc. I imagine they look at things from the surface, while we (men) dig deep to explore and get to make decisions. Men have to put up with these women in their lives merely because they have to live a life everyone expects them to...which is totally wrong!
One day, i am looking forward to that time where no one will ask me what was in the news after watching a whole hours of grizzly pictures on 'Citizen news'; where I wouldn't have to accompany one to shopping at the supermarket or if not spend less than 5 minutes at the premises; when I will watch TV without question or interruption; where I will have my 'alone time' too!
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